Regan Flieg: Listening to the Bad Part
In Till We Have Faces, as Psyche tells her sister the story of how she came to live with her husband, the god of the mountain, after she was sacrificed to him. When Oural tells her to “forget that terrible time” and move along because “there’s no time,” Psyche doesn’t accept this (Lewis 107-8). Instead, she tells her that “you won’t understand the wonder and glory of my adventure unless you listen to the bad part” (Lewis 108).
Psyche’s insistence that the “bad part”of her story in which was afraid and alone is reminiscent of Lewis’s sentiment on the relationship between joy and suffering that he learned from Joy in Shadowlands. It is clear in Till We Have Faces (to the reader if not to Oural), that Psyche is tremendously happy as the god’s wife, living her amber castle, but her insistence on telling her story with the inclusion of the period before she met her husband and she was scared of what would happen to her reflects that her joy would not be possible without having experienced the “bad part.” As readers, it is necessary for us to hear the bad part too. As Fisher explained when laying out the groundwork of his Narrative Paradigm, it is stories that we use to “give order to human experience” (63). Because stories are our means of making sense of our lives and experiences and suffering must accompany joy, it is essential that our stories depict this necessary relationship between joy in suffering. In seeing how Psyche’s suffering led to her joy (even if the joy is later taken from her), the reader can begin to see how this speaks to her own experience as well and that suffering often opens the door to joy in our own world as well.
Fisher, Walter R. “Narration as a Paradigm of Human Communication.” Human Communication as Narration: Toward a Philosophy of Reason, Value, and Action, University of South Carolina Press, 1989, pp. 57-84.
Lewis, C. S. Till We Have Faces: A Myth Retold. 1956. Harcourt Brace, 1985.
Shadowlands. Directed byRichard Attenborough, performances by Anthony Hopkins, Debra Winger, and Julian Fellowes, Savory Pictures, 1993.
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