A connected love

 In C.S. Lewis' Till we Have Faces we are treated with a retelling of the myth of Psyche were we see her love of both her sister and her new husband. As well as the twisted manipulation of her sister's love. In this questioning of love and how she can love both her sister and her husband it poses a question, how stable can a love be between parties? Is there a difference between the love between friends and family and those of closely bonded lovers?

We all have many people who we love, but what separates the love of friends from that of a husband or a wife? Is it only physical attraction? or perhaps it is social taboos? I have wondered about this on and off through my life. Personally I believe that the intimate bonds of love and interconnectedness can certainly be shared with more than one person, but in order to maintain such bonds all lovers need to love one another just the same. This in itself is certainly a feat, so it is no wonder why many simply restrict themselves to just one true love. As without the mutual love between all three parties. Or with less intimate relationships between three people, there should at least be honestly. Hence why its important to share the information of a new relationship with friends and family. Love is an important part of life, but it takes clarity and honesty to maintain it.

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